Anonymous asked:

Usually you don't have to question your gender unless you feel like there's something there that doesn't belong there. Cis people don't have to question their gender because they feel like everything belongs there. Trans people deal with a sensation that tells them that something isn't right, something doesn't belong there, and that's why they have to question their identity. (im trans btw and i love that you give so much shit to people who are like "ew cis people", they're so counterproductive)

Yeah, I know that for trans people, that is the case. But the idea that cis people should force themselves to question their gender without reason? Stupid. (And you are awesome.)

crazo3077

crazo3077:

i just don’t understand cis people. how can you form an identity without questioning your gender?

It isn’t something to be questioned. You can know it without questioning. 

Also, I don’t let my gender or sexuality form the entirety of my identity. It’s not a healthy way to live. 

It’s like saying ‘How can you be white if you don’t question your race?’ It’s a pointless question. 

ciswhiners

chvmpvgne-and-reefer asked:

can you give me an honest, well thought out answer to why you believe that I, as a cisgendered white male, am the scum of the earth. I don't mean the entire cisgendered population, what did i personally do to the transgender community, besides being born into the sex i identify with.

ciswhiners answered:

"cisgendered

white male”

"born into the sex i identify with"

Wow, look at ciswhiners intelligence and ability to back up an argument!

Not at all. 

chvmpvgne-and-reefer, you are fine. I guess us cis people need to stick together. We are the new devils to these people! 

i-wish-i-was-a-princess

My boyfriend literally just said “not all men.”

i-wish-i-was-a-princess:

He’s so open-minded and I’m slowly teaching him about feminism. He is starting agree with me on a lot of issues. But sometimes he slips up and I have to remind myself that he’s still learning. It’ll take some time, but I think he’ll get there.

He needs to get out of this relationship ASAP. RUN FOR THE HILLS< BOY!

Anonymous asked:

I believe the biggest difference between misoginy and misandry is that women are raised being told that THEY are weak, and that the world is a threat; whereas men are raised being told that they are strong, that they have to be confident and that they can defeat any enemy. This is the reason why nobody gives a shit when men are attacked, because they are supposed to be strong and unbreakable, and that makes it the more tragic when a man isn't part of that stereotype. Feminists can't see this.

Feminists can’t see past the end of their nose, really. I agree with you. I do think that a woman’s upbringing can depend on their family dynamic—I was taught to be tough—but, I do know what you mean.

Anonymous asked:

I find it kind of amazing that (most) girls on Tumblr are shitting on unnecessarily gendered products for men (ie candles, donuts,...) and yet they're the ones who bringing gender into everything.

Yep. You are right on, anon. 

theelonelystranger

the-captains-wife:

deancasheadcanons:

dean and cas are gonna be face-to-face in 10x3 so here’s what i need:

  • dean calling cas “sweetheart” condescendingly
  • dean winking an eye black at cas
  • cas puNCHING DEAN IN THE FACE and slamMING HIM INTO A WALL and yelling “this is not the man i pulled out of hell. this is not the man i rebelled for.”
  • dean telling cas to just give up already and cas responds, “in the words of an old friend, bite me.”

I don’t even watch the show and I need this

open--your-eyes-dean

slimemeister:

if your a female and you are against feminism like seriously. what. the. fuck. is. wrong. with. you

YOU ARE THE PROBLEM WITH GILRS THESE DAYS.

THE FACT THAT THERE ARE SOME GIRLS MY AGE THAT BELIEVE THAT EQUALITY TO MEN IS WRONG MAKES ME HATE HUMANITY.

OR THE FACT THEY DON’T SUPPORT FEMINISM THEY DON’T KNOW WHAT IT MEANS BECAUSE THEY DIDNT TAKE 5 FLIPPING SECONDS TO LOOK UP WHAT IT IS.

I don’t support it. Equality between men and women isn’t wrong—we just have it. 

Also, your issue with people not believing the same thing is a problem. If someone doesn’t call themselves a feminist, that is their right. 

lanterncat asked:

You know that shark and men analogy right? Where it's more rational to be scared of sharks than men, even though sharks have a less of a chance of attacking you? I think it's the stupidest thing in the fucking world. Because people have the ability to avoid sharks, you can not go to aquariums and not go to the beach, but you can't avoid an entire fucking gender, who have just as much right to be on the streets as women do.

For some reason, I read this, and thought of all the men in the world in shark costumes and it made the comparison even better

eee-in

wangleanewdangleonlife asked:

I realize that a lot of people who message you on here are very hostile and I'm sorry about that. You have strong opinions and because they're so strong it can rub people the wrong way. But you're still entitled to them. I just think that telling every single person who messages you to fuck themselves instead of having an actual discussion is counterproductive to any message you're trying to spread. It can make people unwilling to listen to any of your many legitimate and compelling points.

idislikecispeople answered:

If someone is gonna harass me, misgender me, or be transphobic, I reserve the right to tell them to fuck off because I don’t need that shit in my life. It isn’t my job to educate assholes, especially if they’re only here to start a ruckus.

eee-in:

wahhh someone didn’t call you your special snowflake made up pronouns

You’re so oppressed

Oh God, I can’t stand her. It’s just constant bullshit. Also, that is my favorite thing—‘it’s not my job to educate you.’ Oooookay then.